Sunday, October 30, 2005

Always Reforming

Today was Reformation Sunday at church -- the great annual Lutheran tribal gathering. The church was bedecked in red; the pews were packed; the air was redolent with aromas of various caloric potluck dishes warming up in the kitchen; we sang "A Mighty Fortress" and "The Church's One Foundation"; the tradition lives on for another year.

But more importantly for our congregation, this Sunday was Confirmation Sunday. This is a new thing for us, and perhaps for readers as well; at least when I was a kid, confirmations happened around the Easter season. But we have found that, at our church, we can get junior-high and high school kids involved in religious education if we put them through what amounts to a two-week theological bootcamp and a week of church camp in the summertime...this after easing them through the door with an afterschool program where kids hang out afternoon a week with the pastor, engage in Godtalk, play music, and on occasion go on pastoral-care rounds and help out with various churchly tasks.

This morning eight nervous white-robed confirmands sat in the front row. One of them had been so desperate to attend confirmation class that he intially fibbed about his age so he could get in. (We would have let him in anyway, but it's a great story.) Another, a girl with minimal evident adult support for her faith journey, who got involved with our church through her friends, was recently baptized, and when she was her adolescent peers from confirmation class stood up for her as sponsors. (Which I suspect is probably against "the rules," or falling under the dreaded category of "But we've never done it that way before." But our response as a congregation was happy wonderment -- imagine a bunch of teenagers, unprodded by adult authority figures, being the Church for their friend.)

We followed the liturgy for the Affirmation of Baptism. Each kid was asked the traditional question: "Do you renounce all the forces of evil, the devil and all his empty promises?" A series of quiet responses: "I do." "Do you believe in God the Father?" The entire congregation then joined in, response after response, to affirm the articles of the Creed.

Finally it was time for each kid to be confirmed. As he or she knelt at the altar, our pastor invited parents and godparents to join him in the laying on of hands. And when it came time for our newly baptized, sans-adults teenager to be confirmed, all the rest of her class, her friends/peers/sponsors, stood up in unison, returned to the altar and laid their hands on her.

What should the Church look like? I think at its best it looks a lot like this.

Lutherans like to describe ourselves as catholic, evangelical and reforming. We're catholic because we affirm the witness of the Apostles, the formative theologians and the ecumenical councils of the early Church, and the praxis of worship as has been handed down to us from those times. We are evangelical because our primary goal in being the Church is to proclaim the very good news of God's unconditional, no-strings-attached Yes! to a loving relationship with humankind, personified by Jesus Christ, God With Us. And we are reforming because, whenever some aspect of our life together impedes that message of God's love and grace, we believe that it's our job to make a change. That's the ideal. That's what we strive for.

I am happy and blessed to be a part of a faith community that takes this always- reforming ethos seriously; that tries its darnedest to erase the lines, whatever they may be, that work to keep people outside our church family.

After the service, I was talking with our pastor -- we were both grinning from ear to ear -- about what a great congregation we have, and he said, "I go to these pastoral conferences where other pastors talk about the problems they have keeping their congregations going, and when they ask me why ours is always bucking the trend, I tell them it's because we've made the decision to stop fighting about stuff; about who's 'in' and who's 'out.'"

When the Son sets us free, we are free indeed. Thanks be to God!

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12 comments:

Jules said...

What a hapy day, Lutheranchik! We had confirmation day at my church, too. I think Reformation day is the perfect day to do this.

LutheranChik said...

You bet. And our kids have the "priesthood of all believers" thing nailed.;-)

LoieJ said...

Our church has a pretty good youth group going on Wednesday nights. This year seems particularly good and the the discussions are spiritually based. Some of the kids attend confirmation class with the pastor during part of the time. The youth leader has the respect of the kids and even though they are doing God Talk, the attendence is up. One kid has made it his mission to bring his druggy friends, I've been told. Good for him.

Question: Are the youth at your church feeling or being made to feel a part of the church as a whole? Do they attend the regular worship services as well as youth events? If they do attend, does the church do anything to be especially inclusive to them, such as chosing certain music styles?

We've had an active youth program for a number of years, with a several great youth leaders, but I don't see the youth being drawn into the whole life of the church unless they come from a family where both parents attend regularly.

LutheranChik said...

Loie: Great questions!

We try to make our services as "barrier-free" for young people as possible. For one thing, we have no age limits for helping out in our services: If, say, a five-year-old wants to be an acolyte, we say, "Go for it, kid," and pair him or her up with an older helper. Our little children are welcome and encouraged to hang out at the front of the church to get a better look at what's going on, which they very often do. (And this is a real difference from back in the day when I was growing up, where children were, except for Christmas Eve "pieces," persona non grata as active participants in the worship service, even verboten from accompanying parents to the altar for Holy Communion.) We've also tried having monthly youth services.

What we have found, though, is that many of our teenagers still shun Sunday worship. Their Wednesday-afternoon group winds up being church for them. Pushing them to attend Sunday services sends them screaming in the opposite direction. We tried having a monthly youth service that the kids helped plan and lead, but that burned them out.

I was a church geek as a child; I actually always enjoyed the experience of traditional liturgical worship (if not my then-denomination's theological and social points of view), even during my teen years. So I'm not a good person to ask about the whys of contemporary teen behavior. But if teenagers in the neighborhood of our church, including and especially teenagers from families not connected to our church, find our church a safe haven, that is a good thing. We'll meet 'em right there every week, even if we can't get them to church on Sunday mornings. And...we have had adults become active members of our church through our initial ministry to their kids. So I guess, while I'd love it if our weekday teenagers became regular Sunday worshippers, I'm going to look at our reality in a glass-half-full way, and thank God that we get them for some quality time at least one day a week.

bls said...

Hey! We sang Ein' feste Burg, too!

I was wondering what the context was. I just love that tune, and the words are some serious, powerful business:

"And though this world, with devils filled, should threaten to undo us,
We will not fear, for God hath willed His truth to triumph through us:
The Prince of Darkness grim, we tremble not for him;
His rage we can endure, for lo, his doom is sure,
One little word shall fell him.

That word above all earthly powers, no thanks to them, abideth;
The Spirit and the gifts are ours through Him Who with us sideth:
Let goods and kindred go, this mortal life also;
The body they may kill: God’s truth abideth still,
His kingdom is forever.
"

Whew. I was killed myself, at the end of that.

Our rector is really a Reformation kinda guy, I think, among Catholics....

Charlotte said...

Happy Reformation Day, LC! Sounds wonderful. That's a great story about the girl!

We had confirmations and baptisms too ... our bishop was visiting. Very exciting stuff even if we didn't have "A mighty fortress" on the playlist.

LutheranChik said...

bls: I find "A Mighty Fortress" a strangely -- well, maybe not so strangely -- comforting hymn when dealing with The Troubles. This weekend our prof and our bishop, who also taught a class, were both talking to us about the Exilic authors of Scripture and how we as a society and as churches have a tendency to "exile" certain groups of people (Yes! Tell me more!), and how we can rectify (aka reform) those inequities/broken places...it just all fit together the next day, singing the words.

I also love the medieval imagery -- Christ as, literally, the knight in shining armor, coming onto the battlefield to contend with the devil. Ironically, when Luther had to "get out of Dodge" and hide away in Wartburg Castle, his traveling alias was that of a knight. So that imagery of being in a life-and-death battle, waiting for the champion to come to the rescue, was very real for him.

LutheranChik said...

Charlotte: I once attended a Reformation Day service where they didn't sing "A Mighty Fortress. Oh, my...the campers were not happy.;-)

LutheranChik said...

This is odd...in discussing this, the words of another Reformation Day musical chestnut popped into my head. It's probably been 20 years since I've sung this hymn, but it is seared (more or less) into my consciousness from my childhood:

Salvation unto us has come
Through God's free grace and favor
Good works cannot for us atone
They help to save us never
Faith looks to Jesus Christ alone,
Who did for all the world atone
He is our Mediator.


(In case the point was not sufficiently sent home in one's catechetical instruction.;-))

Tom in Ontario said...

Your post makes me want to cry. We haven't got anything like a youth program here. The few kids who go through confirmation classes with me don't want to be there and thus I don't really want to be there either. Eventually they're confirmed out of the church. I hear stories like yours and wonder "what am I doing wrong" or "what else should I be doing." It's a perennial lament and nothing ever changes here. It makes me so sad so often. Totally discouraging.

LutheranChik said...

Tom, it took a long time for us to revive our youth program. We basically gave up and started all over again. (We also gave up Sunday School for a couple of years, much to the consternation of some in the congregation. The pastor said, "If it's important to people, it'll come back," and it eventually did.) I think our pastor's special interest in youth ministry is a big factor, but I think deconstructing the youth program was another...letting go of our desired outcomes for the time being and just trying different ideas, and listening to the kids, and letting the program grow organically. And that can be hard.

Kathryn said...

That's really good reading, LC...clearly a truly excellent Reformation Sunday.
In the past year, the Church of England has begun to get really excited about "Fresh Expressions of Church"..which in some ways equates to emergent church, but the "expressions" may be traditional things viewed in new ways...so your midweek Youth slot just IS church for those kids, and they don't need to be fed in to the Sunday fellowship to be doing church. I'm sure you know this anyway, it just felt like a good place to reiterate it!